Think Eternity Not Temporary

What is the secret to being thankful and content in whatever relationship status we are in? It is choosing to “Think Eternity and Not Temporary.” What do I mean by this? I mean choosing to have the proper spiritual perspective about this life. As a Christian, correct perspective is essential to continuance and perseverance through […]

5 Things Christian Singles Can Learn From the Life of Joseph

If there is someone who knew what it meant to maximize his life and maximize his single years, it was our bro Joe! Every time I read the account of his life in the book of Genesis Ch 37-50; I am left in awe. Joseph was the REAL DEAL in every way! He wasn’t perfect, […]

Marriage is NOT a Fairytale

I’M SUPER EXCITED that my wonderful sister agreed to be a guest writer on my blog. After this blog, you all will see why I love her so much! lol She’s like a REAL LIVE P31! haha She has been one of my biggest inspirations in my life. I am so grateful to be her […]

Ladies Do Not Settle

No matter what, DO NOT SETTLE. I know, trust me I know, you’re tired. You’re tired of the wait, tired of hurting, tired of seeing others get their answered prayers but you still feeling like you have yet to get your answered prayers. I’m here to tell you that God has not forgotten about you. […]

Your Season is for a Reason

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”-Proverbs 19:21 To the girl scrolling through her Instagram, Facebook or Twitter. As you witness all of the proposals, engagements, and first Holiday photos of newlyweds and couples I understand the emotions you’re experiencing. You can let it out… it’s […]

Ladies Stop Looking Pt 2

  Women were never designed to look for a man. NEVER. Nowhere in scripture is there an example of a woman PURSUING a man, or going out to HUNT for a husband. So why is it that so many single women of today are compelled and even at times encouraged to look for a future […]

Ladies Stop Looking

Writing this blog is very emotional for me. The reason I say this is because, my heart is so heavy for many single women in the world today. If you are a single woman reading this, I want you to feel my heart for you as I write these words.  “HE who finds a wife […]

Life is not about Being Single or Married

Life is not about being single or married. Life is about God. Do I believe that God has the power to bring a wonderful man of God into my life to be my husband? Definitely. Do I believe that I can live a fulfilled and joyous life while unmarried? Definitely. How can I write this […]

Lord How Do I I Know If A Man Is Into Me

If you have to question it, then he is probably not. Anything of God and from God will bring about peace, not confusion. As a result, a man of God that is interested in you will seek to develop NOT confusion with you, but peace. If you have to constantly question a guy’s feelings for […]


    I wanted to write this blog to all of the individuals who distinguish themselves as “single.” I want to challenge you to think far beyond that word. So many times when we hear the word “single” we put ourselves into a particular box. It’s almost as if the word SINGLE and the relationship […]