{"id":4842,"date":"2018-10-13T05:40:53","date_gmt":"2018-10-13T10:40:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/?p=4842"},"modified":"2018-10-14T18:02:49","modified_gmt":"2018-10-14T23:02:49","slug":"27-things-i-realized-by-age-27","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/christian-encouragement\/27-things-i-realized-by-age-27\/","title":{"rendered":"27 Things I Realized by Age 27"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!-- wpsso pinterest pin it image added on 2026-06-25T06:36:39+00:00 -->\n<div class=\"wpsso-pinterest-pin-it-image\" style=\"display:none !important;\">\n<\/div><!-- .wpsso-pinterest-pin-it-image -->\n\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084.png\"><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-4848 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"534\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084-300x300.png 300w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084-440x440.png 440w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084-456x456.png 456w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084-109x109.png 109w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084-100x100.png 100w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4084.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 534px) 100vw, 534px\" \/><\/a><strong style=\"color: #3366ff; font-size: 18pt; text-align: center;\"><em>\u201cI said, let days speak and<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong style=\"color: #3366ff; font-size: 18pt; text-align: center;\"><em>many years teach wisdom.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong style=\"color: #3366ff; font-size: 18pt; text-align: center;\"><em>-Job 32:7<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Selfishness<\/strong> will <em>lead<\/em> to <strong>loneliness<\/strong>.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Phil 2:3)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>2. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The <strong>truth <\/strong>of who <strong>you<\/strong> are will be revealed on <strong>judgement day<\/strong>. <strong>GOD<\/strong> <strong>knows<\/strong> those who are <strong>HIS<\/strong>.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(1 Cor 4:5)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>3. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>NEVER\u00a0<\/strong><em>apologize<\/em> for <strong>grieving.<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Matt 5:4)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>4. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Understanding when it\u2019s time to <strong>move on<\/strong> is one of life\u2019s <strong>greatest blessings<\/strong>. Moving on from a relationship, friendship, season etc.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Phil 3:12-14)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>5. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Arrogance is <strong>insecurity<\/strong> <em>undercover.<\/em><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Prov 27:2)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>6. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Singles, marrieds, parents, the barren, orphans and widows are <strong>ALL<\/strong> valuable to this world and are <strong>ALL<\/strong> valuable to the <strong>Kingdom of God.<\/strong> Everyone\u2019s story and journey is meant to be unique and different, and is meant to <em>show<\/em> that God\u2019s <strong>power<\/strong> &amp; <strong>love<\/strong> has <strong>NO<\/strong> <strong>LIMIT!<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Romans 12:4-5)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>7. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Love<\/strong> people <em>enough<\/em> to have the <strong>tough conversations.<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> (Proverbs 27:6)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>8. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Manipulators<\/strong> <em>hate<\/em> truth, so if you are a woman or a man of truth, <strong>DO NOT<\/strong> be <em>surprised<\/em> if some people hate you.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(John 8:44)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>9. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>Satan<\/em> is<strong> THE MASTER<\/strong> Manipulator. Everything he does and says is based off of a <strong>lie.<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(John 8:45)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-4846 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081-768x1152.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081-683x1024.jpg 683w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081-960x1440.jpg 960w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081-440x660.jpg 440w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4081.jpg 1365w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">10. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">A fulfilled life is <strong>not<\/strong> based on <strong>age<\/strong> but on the <em>depth and intimacy<\/em> of your relationship with <strong>God.<span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Ecc 12:13)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">11. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Every being that has <strong>EVER<\/strong> existed will <em>always<\/em> exists. Our <strong>souls<\/strong> are <strong>eternal<\/strong>. We will either live eternally <em>with God<\/em> or eternally <em>without God.<\/em> The <strong>choice<\/strong> is ours.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Ecc 3:11)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">12. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The goal of a Christian is not to be\u00a0<strong>RICH<\/strong> but to be a <em>good<\/em> <strong>STEWART.<\/strong> There is a difference.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(1 Peter 4:10), (Matt 25:20-21)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">13. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">You can <strong>love everyone<\/strong> but you <strong>DO NOT<\/strong> have to be <strong>friends<\/strong> with everyone. That\u2019s <em>not<\/em> being <strong>mean,<\/strong> that\u2019s being <em>wise.<\/em><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(1 Cor 15:33)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">14. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">True <strong>contrition<\/strong> and <strong>repentance<\/strong> <em>cannot<\/em> be <strong>faked.<\/strong> You\u2019re either truly sorry or you\u2019re not. There is no in between.<\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> (2 Cor 7:10-12)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">15. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">An <strong>inability to empathize<\/strong>, is <em>not<\/em> a working of the <strong>Spirit.<\/strong> If we are children of God, <strong>compassion<\/strong> should run in our blood.<\/span><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Col 3:12)<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">16. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The <strong>REALEST<\/strong> expectation is for people to fail you at times, and for <strong>God<\/strong> not to. <em>Rest<\/em> in that.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Josh 21:45)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">17. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The <em>goal<\/em> of any and every <strong>relationship<\/strong> should be to <strong>love the way God loves.<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Eph 5:2)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">18. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Do <strong>NOT<\/strong> let anyone <strong>rush<\/strong> your life.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Heb 12:1-2)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">19.<span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> Sometimes the <strong>righteous die young<\/strong> and the <strong>wicked live to be old<\/strong>. But the<strong> years<\/strong> of someone\u2019s life does not erase the <strong>truth<\/strong> of someone\u2019s <strong>character.<\/strong> Don\u2019t ever measure someone\u2019s faithfulness by how<em> long<\/em> they lived on earth.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Isaiah 57:1-2)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4079.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-4845 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4079-201x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"360\" height=\"537\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4079-201x300.jpg 201w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4079.jpg 428w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">20.<span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> You are who <strong>GOD says<\/strong> you are. <strong>His opinion<\/strong> is the <strong>ONLY<\/strong> true opinion that holds absolute <strong>authority<\/strong> and <strong>power!<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Jeremiah 1:5)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">21. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The liberating <strong>power<\/strong> that is found in <strong>Jesus Christ<\/strong> is <em>insurmountable.<\/em> Jesus truly is the answer to <strong>ALL<\/strong> of life\u2019s problem. <\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(2 Peter 1:3), (Rom 8:11)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">22<span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">. When life grips you by <strong>grief<\/strong>&#8230;<strong>embrace it<\/strong> and <strong>move into it.<\/strong> Don\u2019t suppress it, don\u2019t deny it, and don\u2019t ignore it. Move into it. Walk through it. Crawl through it. Weep..wail..scream..through it. Whatever you have to do, just <strong>keep moving<\/strong> into it and through it, trusting that <strong>God<\/strong> is with you.<\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> (John 11:35)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">23.<span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"> You <strong>DO NOT<\/strong> have to <em>respond<\/em> to <strong>foolishness.<\/strong> Whether it be a foolish question or a foolish person. Sometimes the <strong>best<\/strong> thing to do is to be <strong>SILENT.<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Prov 23:9)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">24. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Forgiveness<\/strong> is <em>impossible<\/em> without <strong>God<\/strong> in your life.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Col 3:13)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">25. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><em>God\u2019s camera<\/em> has <strong>night vision.<\/strong> What is done in the <strong>dark,<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>WILL<\/strong> come to the <strong>light.<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Luke 8:17)\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">26. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Everyone has a <em>cross<\/em> to bear. <strong>Everyone<\/strong>. Yours may be <strong>sickness<\/strong>. Yours may be <strong>loss.<\/strong> Whatever your cross may be, just use your cross to show the world <strong>JESUS.<\/strong> With every cross we are given, Jesus is there hanging on it, saying \u201c<strong>I LOVE YOU and I am willing to bear the pain with you.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(2 Cor 12: 7-10)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">27. <span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">We all have an <strong>invisible expiration date<\/strong> on this earth that <strong>only God<\/strong> can see. So, <em>value<\/em> <strong>today<\/strong> and the people in your today. Cherish this minute, your breath, your heartbeat, and your spirit. Today can very well be your <strong>last day<\/strong> on this earth.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">(Ecc 9:12)<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4847\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"660\" height=\"440\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-1024x683.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-960x640.jpg 960w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-440x293.jpg 440w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-1200x800.jpg 1200w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082-800x533.jpg 800w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/IMG_4082.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>With love,<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Ashley Moneet<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Fearless. Faithful. Following<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cI said, let days speak and many years teach wisdom.\u201d -Job 32:7 1. Selfishness will lead to loneliness. (Phil 2:3) &nbsp; 2. The truth of who you are will be revealed on judgement day. GOD knows those who are HIS. (1 Cor 4:5) &nbsp; 3. NEVER\u00a0apologize for grieving. (Matt 5:4) &nbsp; 4. 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