{"id":4284,"date":"2017-01-31T21:58:15","date_gmt":"2017-02-01T02:58:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/?p=4284"},"modified":"2017-01-31T21:58:15","modified_gmt":"2017-02-01T02:58:15","slug":"why-we-should-choose-modesty-part-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/christian-encouragement\/why-we-should-choose-modesty-part-ii\/","title":{"rendered":"Why We Should Choose Modesty Part II"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!-- wpsso pinterest pin it image added on 2026-04-30T18:47:12+00:00 -->\n<div class=\"wpsso-pinterest-pin-it-image\" style=\"display:none !important;\">\n<\/div><!-- .wpsso-pinterest-pin-it-image -->\n\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Why We Should Choose Modesty<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>(Part II)<\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3336.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4267\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3336-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3336-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3336-440x587.jpg 440w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3336.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>We should choose modesty because&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><b>It helps us not to be a stumbling block or hindrance to someone.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We should not be the source of aiding in someone to sin. If it is in our control, we should not seek to cause someone to spiritually stumble. As a woman, if I purposefully dress immodestly and know my attire will cause men to look and lust after me in an inappropriate manner, why would I do that? If I truly love my brethren, and If I\u2019m seeking to bring lost souls to Christ, why should I purposely do something that I know can be a spiritual hinderance? When I dress modestly I HELP PREVENT that from happening. Yes, in some cases a man can still choose to lust after a woman, even if that woman is dressed properly, but it will probably be somewhat harder to do so. \u00a0I should not be seeking to sin or help someone to sin. God wants me to be obedient and also help aid others in their obedience toward Him.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;Anyone then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn&#8217;t do it, sins.&#8221;- James 4:17<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">*Sidenote for the Married Women: We know that bed is undefiled in marriage (Heb 13:4), and that there is nothing wrong with being sexually appealing to your husbands. However, publicly you should not seek to shame your spouse by dressing in an immodest fashion. The only man that needs to be desiring you in a sexual way should be your husband. Save your unveiling and uncovering for YOUR MAN AT HOME, not all the men outside of your home. Modesty is for all women, not just the single ones. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>There is peace and freedom in modesty.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ahhhh! This is one of my favorites! We should be modest because there is SO MUCH peace and freedom in modesty! Contrary to popular belief, modesty is not a prison. There is a way to still be cute, classy, fashionable, and MODEST! We don\u2019t have to walk around with brown potato bags over our bodies. We can still find joy in taking care of our bodies. We can still present ourselves in a womanly fashion while at the same time maintaining our modesty and obedience toward God. And while we do that, we can be at PEACE about it! How awesome is that?\u00a0When I\u2019m modest, I don\u2019t have to think twice about sitting down in a chair when I have a skirt on. Why? Because I won\u2019t be worried about pulling it down because the length will already be appropriate. When I\u2019m modest, I don\u2019t have to constantly be pulling up my top or be self conscious about who\u2019s looking at my backside. Why? Because I will already be properly covered. It puts my heart and my mind to rest. I can be free in Christ Jesus and love every minute of it! Peace perfect PEEEEACCCCEEE!<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;This is love for God: to obey his commands. and his commands are not burdensome..&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">-1 John 5:3<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I say all of this to lovingly encourage to obey the call of modesty. There is so much beauty, joy, and freedom in being a <strong>Modest Woman<\/strong> in heart, action, and attire!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Be encouraged<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Fearless.Faithful.Following<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-4260\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"349\" height=\"465\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337-768x1024.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337-960x1280.jpg 960w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337-440x587.jpg 440w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337-1200x1600.jpg 1200w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/IMG_3337-800x1067.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 349px) 100vw, 349px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cModesty is more than just physical appearance but reaches into the depths of one\u2019s spiritual heart. Within God\u2019s guidelines, we are free\u2026free to be beautiful not just in dress but in heart.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> -Ashley Moneet<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why We Should Choose Modesty (Part II) We should choose modesty because&#8230; It helps us not to be a stumbling block or hindrance to someone. We should not be the source of aiding in someone to sin. If it is in our control, we should not seek to cause someone to spiritually stumble. 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