{"id":3733,"date":"2015-09-14T18:04:19","date_gmt":"2015-09-14T23:04:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/?p=3733"},"modified":"2016-08-31T22:45:29","modified_gmt":"2016-09-01T03:45:29","slug":"lord-how-do-i-i-know-if-a-man-is-into-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/christian-encouragement\/lord-how-do-i-i-know-if-a-man-is-into-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Lord How Do I I Know If A Man Is Into Me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n
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If you have to question it, then he is probably not.<\/b><\/h4>\n

Anything of God and from God will bring about peace, not confusion. As a result, a man of God that is interested in you will seek to develop NOT<\/strong> confusion with you, but peace.<\/p>\n

If you have to constantly question a guy\u2019s feelings for you,<\/p>\n

his intentions with you, or whether or not he wants to pursue you,<\/p>\n

you already have your answer.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not complicated.<\/p>\n

Men are not complex<\/em> creatures.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m saying this statement not to insult their intelligence or belittle their uniqueness, but because they are in the utmost fashion intelligent and beautifully unique. However, the way God designed a man is a bit<\/em> differently than that of a woman. A man has no problem picking out his favorite sports team, or figuring out what he wants to eat. If he sees something he wants, he goes after it. If he likes something or is interested in a particular hobby, he goes after it. The same thing applies when it comes to a woman in his life.<\/p>\n

If a spiritual man of God sees a woman he is interested in and she possess those godly qualities and character in which he has prayed for, he will PURSUE HER.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So my sister, stop wrecking your brain trying to figure if this certain guy in\u00a0your life likes you or wants to pursue you or not. The man of God that is for YOU<\/strong>, will be interested in YOU<\/strong> and will have no problem making it clear that he wants to pursue YOU. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cFor God is not a God of confusion but of peace.\u201d-1 Corinthians 14:33<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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You DO NOT have to chase what is God sent. <\/b><\/h4>\n

The bible says, \u201cHe<\/strong> that finds a wife, finds a good thing.\u201d<\/em> Key phrase being \u201cHe that finds.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> God didn\u2019t say she. So where in the world did we as women get this concept that we have to chase after a man to get his attention? A woman was not designed to be the pursuer. PERIOD. POINT. BLANK.<\/strong> So sis, put up your track shoes and stop running after that man in your life. If you have to chase him\u2026he ain\u2019t the one! You will tire yourself out trying to make a man that is not for you, the man that you want to be for YOU<\/strong>. Stop running. Catch your breath. Have a seat and trust God with your heart and your life.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n

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If we\u2019re honest with ourselves, the reason we chase after a guy is because we have yet to put our full trust in God. We\u2019re still trying to be the god of our lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

Our willingness to run after a guy in our life, only highlights our unwillingness to fully trust God. It in facts shows our lack of faith.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n

So stop chasing after a guy, and start trusting God with your heart. Relax. IT IS OK.<\/strong>God is in control. If it is in God\u2019s will and purpose for you to be married, He will present that man of God to you. Simply stay fervent in prayer and obedient to God\u2019s commands. The man of God that is for you will seek you out after He has sought<\/span> out <\/span>your Heavenly Father. You will not have to chase him down.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cHe who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.\u201d-Proverbs 18:22<\/p>\n

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God will reveal it to YOU.<\/b><\/h4>\n

If you do not get anything else from this blog, please get this next part I am about to type. For every true daughter of God who has been faithful in her obedience to the gospel of Christ (1 Cor 15:1-4, Acts 2:38, Rom 6:1-6), and is truly seeking to live a life of righteousness for God, God will hear her prayers. The bible instructs us to pray about everything.<\/em><\/p>\n

So if you genuinely seek God in prayer about a particular guy in your life and you ask the Lord to reveal the guy\u2019s heart and feelings to you. HE WILL DO IT.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The problem however does not lie in God\u2019s inability to respond to his faithful daughters prayers. The problem lies in our unwillingness to be patient enough to wait<\/strong> on the answer to our prayers or our choice to ignore God\u2019s answer because it wasn\u2019t the answer we wanted. We think we can pray about something for ONE<\/strong> night and get the answer the next morning. Sis, it doesn\u2019t work like that. God responds when He wants to, NOT when we want Him to.<\/strong> He knows what is best for us. Be patient, remain obedient to God, stay persistent in your prayers toward God and He will eventually show that which He wants you to know.<\/p>\n

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And when He does answer your prayer about that certain guy in your life, accept the answer. I\u2019ll say it again\u2026FULLY ACCEPT THE ANSWER.<\/strong> Do not try to distort the answer, question the answer, or ignore the answer because it wasn\u2019t the answer you were expecting. GOD KNOWS BEST, NOT YOU.<\/strong> Even if it may hurt to accept the answer, DO IT. Even if you may have to shed a few tears, STILL<\/strong> accept the answer. Nothing is worse than trying to hold on to someone or something that God is clearly telling you to let go of. Do not block your blessings<\/em> from God by choosing to hold onto<\/em> something or someone that is clearly a stumbling block.<\/p>\n

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If the answer is YES<\/strong> and that particular guy in your life comes to you, and is open about His feelings and intentions of pursuing you, and His actions have followed the words he has expressed to you\u2026DO NOT RUSH TO THE ALTAR<\/strong> to marry him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sloooooow down, sis. <\/span><\/p>\n

Still be in fervent prayer about that particular guy in your life, the courtship you both wish to pursue, and your heart. So many times we make the mistake, as women, of jumping ahead of God\u2019s timing. Before we know it, we already have married the guy in our head, picked out the names of our future children, and the kind of house we want. Again, I kindly say, SLOW DOWN.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n

Continue to allow the GUY TO PURSUE YOU.<\/strong> Do not jump ahead of yourself and try to control everything to make things happen because you so desperately want it to happen. Continue to trust God with all of your heart. Seek God for guidance, for direction, and for control of your emotions. Stay in prayer and constant communication with God about the matters of your situation. Remember, God is for you, but the devil is also out to destroy you. Anything that comes from God, the devil wants to demolish, but the devil is NO<\/strong> match for God. <\/span><\/p>\n

YOU NEED GOD TO DEFEAT THE SCHEMES OF THE DEVIL IN YOUR COURTSHIP.<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n

So, do not get ahead of yourself and think you have it all figured without first<\/em> consulting God. You cannot fulfill a purpose and plan of God if God is not even in the picture. Trust God with your heart, your love story, and EVERY aspect of your life.<\/strong> Do not make a step until He tells you to. God loves you, and you deserve God\u2019s best for YOU<\/strong>. Trust Him. He is faithful.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cTrust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path straight.\u201d-Proverbs 3:5-6<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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\u201cAsk and it will be given to you; seek and you will find\u2026\u201d-Matthew 7:7<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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I\u2019ll end with this. Desperation will NOT<\/strong> lead you to ending up with the person God has for you. It will leave you ending up with or clinging on to a person that is not for you. We must learn to trust God\u2019s timing and not our timing. We must seek to be obedient and not disobedient when it comes to matters of our heart. God knows best. Do not rush it. Do not create it. Just let God mold and make it!<\/strong> He is the ultimate Creator of lasting, spiritual, and fruitful relationships. Trust God. Remember, you are SO WORTH<\/strong> being pursued.<\/strong> The man that is for YOU<\/strong> will have no problem pursuing YOU.<\/strong> Be Encouraged!<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cMy flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.\u201d-Psalm 73:26<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

With love,<\/h4>\n

Ashley Moneet<\/h4>\n

Fearless.Faithful.Following.<\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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