{"id":3613,"date":"2015-08-04T17:56:42","date_gmt":"2015-08-04T22:56:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/?p=3613"},"modified":"2015-08-04T19:17:38","modified_gmt":"2015-08-05T00:17:38","slug":"forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/christian-encouragement\/forgiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"FORGIVENESS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!-- wpsso pinterest pin it image added on 2026-06-25T07:40:29+00:00 -->\n<div class=\"wpsso-pinterest-pin-it-image\" style=\"display:none !important;\">\n<\/div><!-- .wpsso-pinterest-pin-it-image -->\n\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-3614\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_6300\" width=\"428\" height=\"285\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300-1024x683.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300-960x640.jpg 960w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300-440x293.jpg 440w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300-800x533.jpg 800w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300-1200x800.jpg 1200w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_6300.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 428px) 100vw, 428px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Forgiveness is a <em>divine<\/em> act that cannot be performed using worldly thinking. It is the incomprehensible nature of God. Therefore, we must have His mind and thought process as our guide. Living without God, forgiveness will never be attainable, possible, or demonstrated in our lives.<\/p>\n<h4>Forgiving others starts with seeing ourselves as recipients of God\u2019s great forgiveness.<\/h4>\n<p>We must recognize how often we have sinned and turned our backs against Him. The countless times we\u2019ve messed up; yet, when we repent, He still forgives us. The bible says that, <em>\u201cGod loved us while we were yet sinners.\u201d<\/em> <em>(Romans 5:8)<\/em> God loved us, even when we didn&#8217;t love ourselves. He sent His only son to die for our <strong>MANY<\/strong> sins! Knowing and understanding this, how can we not love and forgive someone else for a trespass that they have done against us? &nbsp;<strong>If God can forgive countless times and never hold it against us, can we be justified before Him possessing a heart with a lack of forgiveness towards someone else?<\/strong> Not forgiving someone but expecting God to forgive us is one of the most <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">hypocritical<\/span> things we could ever do. Lord, help us to forgive!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cFor if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others of their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.\u201d (Matthew 6:14-15)<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>We forgive because we love God.<\/h4>\n<p>God has said,&nbsp;<em>\u201cIf you love me, keep my commandments.\u201d<\/em> <em>(John 14:15)&nbsp;<\/em>God has commanded us to forgive, so if we love God, we will forgive. God is glorified when we show forth His nature.&nbsp;If we\u2019re honest, forgiving someone can be very difficult at times. <strong>The spiritual inward challenge of forgiving when our emotions have been overcome with deep hurt, cuts to the core of our faith.<\/strong> Satan wants us to be <em>deceived<\/em> when this happens. He wants to deceive us into believing that it is <strong>HUMANLY IMPOSSIBLE<\/strong> to forgive this level of hurt and disappointment. Remember, forgiveness is not human, but divine. We <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">need<\/span> God\u2019s help. Ask Him to help you. It is a <em>complete<\/em> surrendering of ourselves to God and the highest demonstration of our love and trust in Him. God never said following His commands would always be easy, but obeying them would be <strong>possible<\/strong> if we decide to <em>deny ourselves<\/em> and <strong>submit<\/strong> to His will.<\/p>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>Forgiveness and reconciliation is necessary to live a peaceful and fulfilling life.<\/h4>\n<p>It\u2019s impossible to live on this earth and have healthy relationships and friendships without forgiveness. As a result, we must <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">always<\/span> seek to forgive no matter how painful the offense. Choosing not to forgive someone will do <em>more damage<\/em> and cause <em>more pain<\/em> in our lives than the pain the person caused who sinned against us.<strong> We should never allow our hearts to be used as a permanent resident for an unforgiving spirit. Shame on us as children of God if we do so.<\/strong> <strong>Someone who truly forgives is someone who understands that forgiveness does not have a \u201cnumber of times\u201d attached to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3622 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-2.png\" alt=\"Attachment-1-2\" width=\"236\" height=\"236\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-2.png 236w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-2-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-2-109x109.png 109w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-2-100x100.png 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cLove keeps no record of wrong.\u201d (1Corinthians 13:5)<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>We forgive even if it\u2019s not asked for or reciprocated. <strong>Forgiveness is not situational.<\/strong> Our pool of forgiveness should be<em> limitless<\/em> for individuals. Even for those who may not deserve it. Our prayer should always be that we all come to repentance with God and then with one another, while keeping in the fore front of our minds, a contriteness that we don\u2019t truly deserve God\u2019s forgiveness.<\/p>\n<h4>Forgive always.<\/h4>\n<p>So, if the same person commits the same offense against you time and time again\u2026<strong>CONTINUE TO FORGIVE!<\/strong> If a person did one of the most hurtful things you could ever imagine\u2026<strong>STILL FORGIVE THEM!<\/strong> If a person never apologizes for any wrong that they have done toward you\u2026<strong>FORGIVE, FORGIVE, FORGIVE!<\/strong> We must realize that forgiveness is more so for the person <em>extending<\/em> the forgiveness than it is for the person <em>receiving<\/em> forgiveness. <strong>When we forgive someone, it sets us free!<\/strong> Free from the chains that we have put on ourselves. It allows us to live in a way that\u2019s joyful, peaceful, and loving! With God in your corner, there\u2019s nothing you can&#8217;t forgive someone for! He\u2019ll show you and teach you the true meaning of love and forgiveness. You just have to be willing to let him show you how it\u2019s done! If you choose to forgive, you truly choose to live!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3621 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-300x300.png\" alt=\"Attachment-1\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-300x300.png 300w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-440x440.png 440w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-456x456.png 456w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-109x109.png 109w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1-100x100.png 100w, http:\/\/www.f3ashley.com\/2021\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Attachment-1.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Be Encouraged.<br \/>\nAshley Moneet<br \/>\nFearless.Faithful.Following.<\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Forgiveness is a divine act that cannot be performed using worldly thinking. It is the incomprehensible nature of God. Therefore, we must have His mind and thought process as our guide. Living without God, forgiveness will never be attainable, possible, or demonstrated in our lives. 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